Good Advice
On the
first day of school our professor introduced himself
and challenged us to get to know someone we didn't
already know. I stood up to look around when a gentle
hand touched my shoulder.
I turned around to
find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with
a smile that lit up her entire being..
She
said, 'Hi handsome. My name is Rose. I'm eighty-seven
years old. Can I give you a hug?'
I laughed
and enthusiastically responded, 'Of course you may!'
and she gave me a giant squeeze..
'Why are you
in college at such a young, innocent age?' I asked.
She jokingly replied, 'I'm here to meet a rich
husband, get married, and have a couple of kids...'
'No seriously,' I asked. I was curious what
may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge
at her age.
'I always dreamed of having a
college education and now I'm getting one!' she told
me.
After class we walked to the student union
building and shared a chocolate milkshake.
We
became instant friends. Every day for the next three
months we would leave class together and talk nonstop.
I was always mesmerized listening to this 'time
machine' as she shared her wisdom and experience with
me..
Over the course of the year, Rose became
a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she
went. She loved to dress up and she revelled in the
attention bestowed upon her from the other students.
She was living it up.
At the end of the
semester we invited Rose to speak at our football
banquet. I'll never forget what she taught us. She was
introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began
to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three
by five cards on the floor.
Frustrated and a little
embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply
said, 'I'm sorry I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for
Lent and this whiskey is killing me! I'll never get my
speech back in order so let me just tell you what I
know.'
As we laughed she cleared her throat
and began, ' We do not stop playing because we are
old; we grow old because we stop playing.
There are only four secrets to staying young,
being happy, and achieving success. You have to laugh
and find humour every day. You've got to have a dream.
When you lose your dreams, you die.
We have so
many people walking around who are dead and don't even
know it!
There is a huge difference between
growing older and growing up.
If you are
nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year
and don't do one productive thing, you will turn
twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven years old and
stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will
turn eighty-eight.
Anybody! Can grow older.
That doesn't take any talent or ability. The idea is
to grow up by always finding opportunity in change.
Have no regrets.
The elderly usually don't
have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we
did not do. The only people who fear death are those
with regrets..'
She concluded her speech by
courageously singing 'The Rose.'
She
challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live
them out in our daily lives. At the year's end Rose
finished the college degree she had begun all those
months ago.
One week after graduation Rose
died peacefully in her sleep.
Over two
thousand college students attended her funeral in
tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example
that it's never too late to be all you can possibly
be.
When you finish reading this, please send
this peaceful word of advice to your friends and
family, they'll really enjoy it!
These words
have been passed along in loving memory of ROSE.
REMEMBER, GROWING OLDER IS MANDATORY. GROWING
UP IS OPTIONAL. We make a Living by what we get. We
make a Life by what we give.
God promises a
safe landing, not a calm passage. If God brings you to
it, He will bring you through it.
Pass this
message on and you will receive a miracle
tomorrow ( if you don't think so....look out your
window when you wake in the morning and think about it
)
'Good friends are like stars.....
.....You don't always see them, but you know they are
always there.'
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